UNSTUCK
Do The Work on Yourself, Not on Your Child.
A Thriving relationship with Your Child Starts Within YOU!
Before I tell you more about this course, let's make sure you are a good fit!
UNSTUCK is ONLY for you if you are ready to transform into the best version of yourself as a mother, leveling up your relationship with your child(ren), insha Allah!
If you are a mother and...
you often feel overwhelmed, discouraged, stuck, and guilty when it comes to your relationship with your child(ren).
you dream of having a beautiful relationship, full of love and connection with your children (and as a family), but you don't know how to make that happen.
you understand that beautiful things, like a strong and meaningful relationship with your kids, don't happen magically. You are ready to invest in yourself and nurture your bond with your children.
you've tried every parenting strategy, and still wonder why your child's behavior and decision-making is poor and undesirable.
despite teaching your children to be kind and encouraging to each other, all you experience is sibling fights and bullying in the house.
your child repeatedly hides things from you. Not only this, but his/her behavior in school and other social settings is deteriorating by day.
Then you are in the right place, sis!
UNSTUCK is the secret every Muslim mother needs to unlock better parenting and deeper, more meaningful connections with her child(ren). This proven 7-step morning routine, rooted in the Quran, Sunnah, and science, helps you transform from within so you can show up as the calm, connected mother you want to be.
This is the value UNSTUCK will bring to you...
You will learn to become a calm, composed, and present mother to your children, full of love and compassion
By following this Proven 7-Step Morning Routine you will flood your mind with positivity and hopefullness. Within a very short amount of time, you will notice your stress levels decrease. This will allow you to be the kind, loving, and soft-spoken mother to your children that you always dreamed of.
You will learn how to bring out in your children the dreams you have for them, rather than focusing on the fears in your mind.
This sounds counter-intuitive, because you've been taught the opposite all your life, but you'd be surprised how quickly your children's behaviors and actions will positively change, when you focus and work on your dreams for them, rather than your fears.
You will learn that parenting can feel laid-back and playful, rather than stressful and stern.
You've always associated 'discipline' with being stern and strict. UNSTUCK will show you how to calmly, yet firmly set boundaries with your kids. You will learn how to be laid-back, playful, and 'chill', while bringing the best out in their character and behavior. Not only that...your children will LOVE being around you!
You will learn how to use the most powerful tool as a mother and a believer.
Your most power tool, granted to you by Allah(swt). Your du'aas. You will learn the 'recipe' for Power Du'aas to harness this tool and see each of your du'aas come true right in front of your eyes. On top of this, you will learn to level up your relationship with Allah, despite your hectic schedule, so that your children will follow in your steps, bi ithnillah!
You will learn to organize and manage your days in a way that, leaves you more time to connect with your children and focus on what matters.
You will genuinely learn to enjoy your time with your children. What used to feel like dread will now bring you happiness. You will quickly realize how important this quality time with your child is in your parenting. A complete game changer!
You will learn to reach levels in your personal growth, progress and well-being that you had never thought you could.
Not only will this help you become the next-level-mother you've always dreamed of, but it also teaches your children an important life lesson: You matter and by taking care of yourself and growing as a human being, you are pleasing Allah(swt).
Thank you for your amazing and beneficial content. You don't know how much it means to me. I have many struggles and one day bumped onto your page. Bit by bit my life is taking shape again and I want to thank you. May Allah have mercy on you and guide you to help the Ummah!
- Faeeza
"UNSTUCK was amazing mashaAllah! It was so well organized, and while Sister Wajma provides a lot of resources and tips, it did not feel overwhelming. With each module, you feel more and more motivated. After finishing the course, I feel that my eman has strengthened and my daily life more rewarding alhamdullilah! I recommend every Muslimah to take advantage of this course! "
Nabeela
"Firstly I just want to thank you for this gem of a program - WAllaahi it’s so amazing and profound! And even though I have a long way, I see myself referring back to it time and again in shaa Allaah. May Allaah Bless you tremendously sis. I admire you so much."
Leeda
"Your course has totally transformed my mindset and has given me a deeper connection with Allah S.W.T. I am implementing all the steps. My heart is beginning to feel lighter and I no longer have this heaviness on my chest and a dark cloud hanging over me. I have taken back my life in a positive way and will continue to take the steps to bringing me closer to the Almighty IA.
Shanaaz
UNSTUCK: The Secret to becoming the mother you've always dreamed of, is now officially OPEN for enrollment!
What's included when you sign up for UNSTUCK?
Pre-Recorded Videos
7 Modules with multiple videos in each module will be delivered to you weekly. One module at a time, to make sure it feels doable and you reach your goals, bi ithnilah.
Worksheets, PDFs, Checklists
Everything you need to compliment the videos in the modules. These will help implement what you learn into your life, rather than just retaining it as information.
Live Coaching Sessions, 2x per week!
In order for you to successfully get through the course and implement what you learn, I will be live with you twice per week, cheering you on, helping you out, answering your questions. There will be a total of 16 live sessions with me throughout the duration of the course!
Private Text Messaging Community
Having access to my coaching gets to a whole new level, because for a total of 10 weeks, you will be on a private text messaging chatgroup with myself and all other students who join Unstuck. Got stuck with something throughout the day or just feel like you can use some support? Message us on the group!
Planning Workshop
I have lead this paid workshop successfully for many to sisters all around the world, alhamdulillah. And now, as a gift to you, the recording of this workshop will be included in your Unstuck membership. Learn how to organize the clutter in your mind and in your day, so you can be more productive, set goals, track goals, and accomplish great heights in your personal and professional life, bi ithnillah.
The foundation of this course is based on my
Proven 7-Step Morning Routine™
This module includes 4 lessons on how to equip yourself with the right mindset and habits, in order to thrive in your journey of transformation as a mother. It is an extremely powerful skill to have as a mother, when you know how to adapt and adopt new helpful habits. There is away to it!
Module 2 includes 6 lessons on how to use the worship of Allah(swt) and your connection with Allah(swt) to nourish your soul, which plays a crucial part in your growth as a mother and how you pass the Deen on to your children. Not to forget: the most powerful tool Allah(swt) has blessed you with is your Du'aa. How to make du'aa, what improves our connection with Allah(swt), how to seek protection from Allah, how to stay present with Allah(swt) in your worship? This Module will address every one of these questions and more!
This Module consists of 5 lessons, that will teach you how to detect the energy levels in your mind and body. Have you even been aware of how your children's behaviors and actions affect your parenting? What happens to your body when you feel angry? How to get out of low energy? You will learn to use scientifically proven techniques to bring yourself into positive energy and mindset, insha Allah.
In the 2 lessons in this module, you will learn the science and the art of externalizing what you are feeling and thinking inside. This Module will help you release anything that is draining your energy, so that you can stay in positivity more easily throughout your day. It is one thing to understand what happens in your mind and body when you feel triggered and when you are not the best version of yourself. But it's a whole other game to be able to process what you feel and to be able to get into a positive mindset.
This module consists of 5 lessons, in which you will learn to dream, plan, and hope for the future, and then program your mind to go after those dreams, plans, and hopes. Ever thought that what you are hoping and dreaming for the future of your kids is out of reach? Or for that matter, have you ever thought ANY of your dreams were too outrageous and you tried to prevent yourself from dreaming too big? There is scientific evidence as well as evidence from the Deen that shows us NOTHING is too outrageous to dream and make du'aa for. And there are practical ways to implement this in your life.
Module 6 has 2 lessons. In these lessons you will learn how to broaden your knowledge. Of deen and dunya. Of any area of your life, but especially parenting. Here is where I will have suggestions for you regarding specific parenting strategies. After all the work you have done in the pervious modules, you will now be able to implement to get educated on specific parenting strategies and implement them into your parenting, insha Allah!
Module 7 has 2 lessons and is all about diet and exercise. When you feel good in your body, you are much more available, insha Allah, to your children. And your availability will be of higher quality. You will not only learn all about how to best care for your own physical body, but also that of your children and family, insha Allah.
At the end of the course and by doing the work, you will have transformed into a mother whose children enjoy being around her. On a consistent basis, your stress levels will be low, and you will feel good in your mind, body, and your connection with Allah(swt). You will experience bursts of hope and optimism about your children, which will help you be encouraging and kind to them. And this will show in their behavior, actions, and words. Bi ithnillah!
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
The course will officially start on January 2nd, 2025, insha Allah.
I can confidently say, from my own experience and talking to so many sisters, that true change in parenting starts with becoming a different kind of mother. Every change starts with changing from the inside first. I kept this in mind when planning for the courses I wanted to design in the future, insha Allah. In order to learn specific strategies for parenting, it is crucial that you learn to understand yourself and transform into the best version of yourself, regardless of people and circumstances. Becoming THAT best version of you is what we will be after in this course. And I can guarantee that if you do the work, you will experience a transformation in your relationship with your children!
Yes, insha Allah! Have you ever noticed that, depending on how you feel, the same behavior from your child sometimes triggers you, but other times doesn't? It's because your internal state has EVERYTHING to do with how your experiences in life will go. When your internal state is full of positivity, optimism, and tawakkul in Allah, it will transform your relationship with your child. And that's exactly what we will work on in this course: transforming your internal state, bi ithnillah.
We will have live group coaching sessions twice a week and a private text messaging chat group where you can reach me, my team, and other students any time you wish. Lots of support to help you get through the course insha Allah, and to help you implement what you've learned.
I understand your schedule might be busy, and for that reason, I've made the goal of this course "progress"...not quickly getting to the end point. For the duration of the course, our 10 weeks together, you can plan to spend 30 minutes on the course each day. It's up to you how many of the Live Sessions you would like to join. There will be 2 Live Sessions per week. After you have finished the course, spending time on your Morning Routine could take as little as 15 minutes to just do "maintenance work"... or it could take 45 minutes if you feel like you have a lot to work on. So, all depending on how things are going in your life at that moment.
As a mother of four children, with so many more roles in life, I know exactly how it's like to feel completely stuck, discouraged, and lost in your parenting. There have been times in the past, when I wished I could "fix" my child and just be done with a problem. I soon realized there is no magic wand that you can use to fix your child's behavior. Now, I had no idea how to even bring change or move forward. That's when I finally had enough of mediocrity. Alongside getting my certification as a Parenting Coach and a Women's Transformational Coach, It took me 10+ years to come up with the now Proven 7-Step Morning Routine™. When I started sharing it with those in my life, they would come back to me with extreme excitement and tell me that they had become a completely different person. That's when I knew I had something to share with my sisters around the world! I am a walking proof of this method along with many others who have tried it. All praise belongs to Allah!
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I don’t want unhappy students and I don’t want money from unhappy students. My genuine hope and dream is for you to see results, insha Allah, and if you don’t feel happy about the quality of the content or for any other reason, I want to make sure your refund is processed with ease, in full, and immediately.
NO questions asked!
If you’re thinking, “This sounds amazing, but I’m still not 100% sure.” ...keep reading!
UNSTUCKis for youif any of the following is true for you:
01.
Your days with your children pass by with frustration and overwhelm, and you feel immense regret and guilt at the end of the day.
Your feeling of frustration and overwhelm is understandable sis! In fact, I used to feel that exact same way. But over time, I realized it had more to do with my time management, mindset, and priorities in life than my abilities and talent. You CAN be the mother you dreamed of: be present with your children, give them love and affection, play with them, and listen to them attentively. You just need to feel hopeful, empowered, and well-taken care of, yourself. And subhan Allah, it might seem complicated, but with a little bit of work every day, you will be surprised where you can get, insha Allah!
02.
You promise yourself every day that you are going to try your best to be a kind and compassionate mother to your children. But once the day starts, you lose your temper with them..again!
You are not alone in this struggle, sis. While in our Deen and in dunya, intention is extremely important, the Prophet(saw) has also taught us to "tie our camel". Just having the intention to do something, won't get us there. You need to have effective systems and habits in place that will help you achieve your goals quicker and easier. I am here to teach you exactly how to take care of your own mental, physical, and spiritual well-being to then be the mother to your kids you always hoped.
03.
While having a deep desire for a more connected and loving relationship with your child, you don't even know where to start and how to go about it.
As humans, our default way of solving problems is to look at the external world and find the solution there. When in truth, the solution is very simple: it's always within us. I have the proven method that will bring that internal change within you, which is SO much easier than trying to change others. When you experience change inside yourself, you will feel so good in your mind, body, and soul, insha Allah, that you have nothing but goodness, kindness, and love to give your kids. And you will be surprised how positively your kids will respond to that!
You CAN be the mother to your children you've always dreamed of being...
I remember, there was a time when the moment I would open my eyes...I would DREAD the day with my children. I would dread the demands of life as a mother on me. I would dread the fact that I had another 14 hours to go through the day with all the to-dos, the cooking, the cleaning, the fighting kids, the appointments, and so much more!
But what I realized was the true cause of my dread, was the fact that I was living in my head. I was not present with my children. There were thoughts, stories, and beliefs that kept me trapped all day, rather than living the days with my beautiful children.
From raising four children, alhamdulillah, who are now 15, 13, 11, and 8... I learned that no matter how much I learn about parenting...if I AM NOT OK...learning parenting skills won't be very helpful to my relationships with my children. I found out that I needed to become a certain way in my being, thinking, and connection with Allah(swt), for me to be a mother who is pleasing to Allah(swt).
When I started ForMuslimahs, it was with the intention of helping as MANY sisters as possible to feel confident in their parenting and in their relationship with their children, insha Allah!
I envision a world where my sisters find the help and resources they need, to leave disappointment, overwhelm, and the feeling of inadequacy behind, as a mothers, and move forward with confidence and skill, insha Allah!
UNSTUCK is my humble contribution to that, dear sis...to guide you to become the best version of YOU and in turn become the mother you have always dreamed of.
I worked more than a decade, after many trials and attempts, to come up with this Proven 7-Step Morning Routine and it absolutely transformed my life!
When I compare myself now, to the person 14 years ago, it's hard to bring to words what all has changed, all praise and gratitude belong to Allah! I am a better wife, a better mother, kinder to myself and the people around me, more confident, more resilient, more patient, and the list can go on and on. I KNOW by heart that you can experience these same changes, with the right help and with your best effort. My heart literally skips a beat when I think of each one of you and the transformation you are able to experience through this course, insha Allah!
As a mother, you are important on so many levels and to your children and to your family. Your growth and progress is not only pivotal for your dunya and akhira, but especially for that of your beautiful children.
I also understand that there can be a lot of fear around investing time and money on "parenting" and "personal growth".
I learned early on in my journey of motherhood that the best time and money spent was the time and money spent on my own growth and progress, because the effect of my growth has a direct effect not just on myself, my mind, and my well-being, but SO much on my children: their mental well-being, their connection with Allah(swt), their social skills...but most importantly, how they feel about me as their mother.
Once you experience beautiful, positive changes in your relationship with your children, you will be happy you didn't let the fear stop you!
Can't wait to connect with you more inside the course, and through our live sessions, insha Allah!
With Love,
Wajma
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